A 6-WEEK live group PROGRAM FOR STRESSED-OUT PERFECTIONISTS
You're a badass. Your perfectionism isn't.
Does your inner perfectionist have you convinced that you're 10 pounds too heavy, $10,000 dollars too broke, or 10 shades too 'not good enough' to go after your dreams?
Do you feel like you've followed all the rules and done all the things you were supposed to do (and you did it PERFECTLY!), but still feel left behind and like you don’t measure up?
You've worked your pretty little booty off (definitely not 10 pounds too heavy, thank you very much! 😉) to have the great career, the ideal family, the perfect home.
Everyone around you thinks you have it ALL together.
But on the inside you feel:
of feeling the need to measure up and of trying to live up to your perfectionistic standards.
that your inner perfectionist has a grip on you and has you convinced that you aren’t good enough.
from trying to control the people and circumstances around you in an effort to get that perfect outcome.
because you feel like there's so much more potential inside of you, but for some reason it never shows.
Imagine what your life would look like when your'e no longer held back by perfectionism
>> Feeling 'good enough' no matter what life throws at you.
>> Bypassing your inner critic and knowing you don't have to believe what it says.
>> Having the courage to speak up when you need to articulate your needs.
>> Trusting in yourself & what you're capable of without the need to please others or seek their approval.
>> Having the courage to ask for support and feel good being supported.
>> Building the confidence you've always admired in other women.
You deserve a life where…
You look in the mirror and truly love the woman you are, since you no longer feel destroyed comparing yourself to others.
You have the confidence and courage to ask for what you want, whether that’s in work, with money, or with your partner.
You’re able to be more kind, not just to others, but to yourself too, because that’s where your perfectly imperfect life really begins.
You take amazing care of yourself, because there’s no crappy self image to hold you back anymore.
You can truly go out there and do the work you were meant to do, since procrastination no longer has this hold over you.
You say "no" to the things that are wrong for you, so you don’t waste any time or energy on them as pleasing #allthepeople is no longer a priority for you.
The pursuit of perfection takes the breath from your biggest dreams.
You take your heart and compare it to someone else's polished exterior and you feel this pressure. The pressure to be flawless. The pressure to be perfect.
but When you’re stuck in perfectionism, you simply can’t create the work and life that you've always longed for.
Here's the thing... the goal is never supposed to be perfection.
Your goal is always to bring your heart, your gifts, and your work to the table and to know that it's enough.
Perfectionism says that in order for you and your dreams to be valid, you need to have yourself together.
Now, you might think that your perfectionism is what makes you strong, but in reality it eats away at you from the inside out.
You might think that your perfectionism is what makes you successful, but in reality it’s holding you back and it keeps you from shining.
Deep down you know this. But the thought of giving up your perfectionism scares you to death. And so you’re stuck.
what if, Instead of hiding behind your perfectionism,
your life could look like this...
Ease over control
Doing it your way over
trying to fit into somebody else's mold
A sense of self-worth over
believing that who you are isn't enough
People saying "I love what you're doing!" over your inner perfectionist saying "You'll never get it right!"
Oh man. You’re so in the right spot.
That’s where Perfectionist Bootcamp comes in. This 6-week group program presents you with a step-by-step plan to deal with your perfectionism once and for all.
You’ll learn how to deal with:
Your feelings of fear and anxiety that are at the root of your perfectionism.
Your habit of procrastination that has you fooled into believing the lie of “Why start a project when I know I won’t be able to do it perfectly?”.
This need for constant comparison that leads you to beat yourself up over not being as good as others.
Your tendency to people please, because you’re tired of being a doormat and letting people run all over you.
Your approval addiction, because you’re done living according to other people’s expectations.
That grating, perfectionistic voice inside of your head that's constantly tearing you down.
Don't worry, I won’t ask you to give up your diligence, your attention to detail, your keen eye for quality over quantity, your high standards, or your preference for structure and organization.
Those things are your strengths and talents.
It’s just that you’ve been abusing your talents through perfectionism for a looooong time.
It’s time to stop being the queen of
“it’s not quite ready”.
You, my friend, are not alone in your struggle with perfectionism
Perfectionist Bootcamp is a 6-week group program and live experience, with 10 modules worth of video lessons and worksheets.
The entire Perfectionist Bootcamp process is set up for you to succeed.
In module 1 you’re going to dig deep into the nitty gritty of what perfectionism is, which will help you get a better understanding of why you feel the need to perfect and how it affects your work and life. If you want to be able to change a habit, you first need to understand it.
Because perfectionism is a way of coping with fear, this second module is all about dealing with your fear so that when that familiar itch to perfect comes around you no longer have to give in. This module is the heart and soul of this group program and it’ll impact and transform your life way beyond letting go of perfectionism.
Module 3 shows you how to bridge the gap between perfect and reality, so that you can actively start working toward your dreams and doing #allthethings that your perfectionism prevented you from doing before. You’ll focus on taking action to leave behind the perfectionist hustle and procrastination paralysis and start creating from the heart.
In modules 4 through 7 you’re going to implement tips, action steps, and methods that help you keep your comparison, procrastination, people pleasing, and approval addiction in check, which will help you do the things you want to be doing in your work and life without being distracted by FOMO, other people’s opinions, and shiny object syndrome.
And finally, modules 8 through 10 are all about the importance of practicing gratitude, embracing imperfection, and de-stressing. The practical strategies in these modules are going to help you build resilience against perfectionism on a day-to-day basis and set yourself up for long-term success.
Want bonuses? You got it.
Perfectionist Bootcamp is a $597 investment. Investing in Perfectionist Bootcamp will not only give you:
- access to the program and live experience;
- with all 10 core modules and lessons;
- and all the support and accountability you'll ever need;
- PLUS lifetime access and the opportunity to join in on any and all future live rounds of the program.
But you’ll also get over $600 worth of bonus content for free. Including…
Actionable worksheets to help you put what you’ve learned throughout the program into practice.
My best-selling ebook Growing Gratitude, a step-by-step guide to kickstart an easy-to-keep gratitude habit.
3 live group coaching calls, where you can ask questions and get advice on the parts of the Perfectionist Bootcamp process you find yourself struggling with.
A private, members-only Facebook community just for students of Perfectionist Bootcamp. This group is a great place for you to share your struggles & successes and connect with others going through the same process as you.
You can’t be perfect and chase your dreams.
Get gutsy. Get messy. Get real.
SO, HERE’S A QUESTION FOR YOU.
What would being able to put down the armor of perfectionism for good mean to you?
What would your life look like and your work be like if you could start creating from the heart, knowing that what you put out there is enough?
Now, I want you to really imagine it.
I want you to take a moment to think about what that would look like for you and how you would feel on a day-to-day basis.
… feeling like who you are and what you do isn’t good enough
… feeling paralyzed by comparisonitis, the procrastination bug, and pleasing #allthepeople
… cheating yourself out of all the beauty that comes with being completely yourself
… showing yourself grace every single day
… embracing your imperfection as the place where the light comes in and breaks through
… knowing when to (and how to) simply stop and breathe, when you find yourself in the spin of 'must go faster'
… taking action on your dreams instead of spending all that time second-guessing yourself
Whatever is holding you back, stop letting it.
Letting go of your perfectionism doesn’t mean that you have to stop being type A or give up on all your talents. No, you’re going to flush out those perfectionist tendencies so that your talents can take center stage.
Letting go of your perfectionism doesn’t mean that you have to stop striving for excellence. On the contrary, chasing perfection is a huge time drain and without it you’ll get to excellence a whole lot faster.
Letting go of your perfectionism doesn’t mean that you give up on becoming successful. In fact, perfectionism doesn’t help you achieve your goals. It holds you back and hinders achievement. How many times have you not done something you’d wanted to do, because knowing you wouldn’t be perfect at it made you anxious? I know I have.
Do you have trouble
trusting “perfect people”?
Then, why are you trying to be one?
I get it. I got you.
That’s why I’ve created Perfectionist Bootcamp.
You don't have to go through this alone
Perfectionism and comparison are just a couple of bullies.
Don’t listen to them. Do something about it instead.
You've got two choices here...
You could keep trying to figure all of this stuff out on your own (but deep down you know that without support and accountability it will take you much longer than needed).
You could steal my process & strategies and get massive results in a matter of weeks.
Think about where you want to be six months from now...or even ONE month from now.
Do you have a proven plan to get there?
You can use the step-by-step process I teach in Perfectionist Bootcamp to help you achieve a perfectionism-free work and life faster than you thought was possible.
What will you choose?
Hey, Wendy here! I’m the beach-lovin’ gratitude geek behind The Gratefulist. I believe you and your creations matter. I believe you have a purpose, a message, something that needs to be shared with the world.
I’ve made it my mission to do just that: to help you let go of your perfectionism and embrace your perfectly imperfect self so that you get to work toward fulfilling your purpose. I want you to not just fulfill your dreams, but slingshot them into outer space. (Wouldn’t it be great if that was possible?!)
I want you to actively create your life. And I believe you’re so, so capable of doing that.
This group program is
for you if...
... wearing the armor of your perfectionism leaves you exhausted.
... you’re sick and tired of hiding behind your perfectionism and not reaching your fullest potential.
... you're fed up of feeling unfulfilled, overwhelmed and never good enough.
... you’re ready to dig in deep and do the work.
... triple spell-checking the most basic email before sending it and then afterwards going into your ‘Sent’ folder to quadruple check if your spelling and tone really was okay, leaves you feeling drained. (Anyone? Or is this just me?)
This program isn’t for you if...
... you think being a perfectionist makes you a superstar.
... you just want to be told what to do.
... you’re looking for a quick fix.
... you’re not willing to work on yourself, your habits and, at times, feel a little uncomfortable.
+ What if giving up my perfectionism makes me lose my edge?
First, letting go of perfectionism gives you your edge back.
Second, give yourself a little credit. You are more than your perfectionism. You have so much more to offer to the world. And you know it’s time to put down that armor and shield, so that you can start to shine. You got this!
+ What format is the program content delivered in?
Good question! The program materials are shared as video lessons, written text below each video, printable slides, and worksheets. So, whether you prefer to watch, read, write, or listen to the content, you’ll be set.
+ Is there support when I take this course?
There are 3 live group coaching calls where you can ask any question you might have.
Plus, a super supportive Facebook group is part of the package when you enroll in this group program.
Also, you’ll be part of the Perfectionist Bootcamp family. So if you have any questions that arise during or after the program, you can always email for advice, encouragement and a helping hand.
+ I'd love to invest in Perfectionist Bootcamp, but I just don't have the money right now. Is there anything I can do?
Look at it like this: your perfectionism is bothering you and you want to do something about it. You could hire a coach and buy their one-month coaching package for $497, which is actually on the lower end of the pricing range for coaches. What you’ll receive in return is maybe one live coaching session, a few homework assignments, and email support. There is value in working with a coach, but, let’s be honest, you won’t make much progress in one coaching session. Perfectionist Bootcamp is the same investment, but it comes with 10 times more valuable, practical, and actionable content plus live coaching calls and community support.
The same could be said for seeing a professional counselor or therapist, for - on average - $100 per hour. There is value in being in therapy (I was for 1.5 years, so I should know), but how much progress in letting go of perfectionism can you really make in five sessions?
Perfectionist Bootcamp is a $597 investment and it gives you all you ever need to let go of your perfectionism, for good. You have lifetime access, so you can fall back on the lessons and action steps again and again. There will be regular coaching calls. You can ask an unlimited amount of questions in the Facebook Group and ask for all the support you need. It really is a no-brainer.
+ What if I am unhappy with the program?
Here’s the thing: I don’t want you to impulse buy this program, if you’re not sure about it. I want you to be fully motivated and fully committed to making this group program work for you. I promise, it’ll be worth it!
+ Do you offer any refunds?
If you implement the strategies and don't see any results within 30 days, I'll give you a full refund. No questions asked. However, I'm confident that you'll be delighted with the course and you’ll see the benefits of your hard work well within 30 days.
+ What do I do if I have more questions?
Please don’t hesitate to get in touch with me. Shoot me an email firstname.lastname@example.org and I’ll answer any question you might have.
Progress over perfection.